If someone is hypersensitive to you being too "nosy" around them, they won't notice the 95% of instances when you respected their boundaries or didn't try to prod. They'll notice the 5% of instances when you *seemed* to prod more (even if it was just asking a few followup questions to other ppl volunteering that info to you)
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